A mindset is what I see as metaphorical-philosophical glasses. That is what it is, I refuse to change the name into something that I can actually say out loud; mindset glasses. You may wear a different pair each day. One drastically different to the one you wear on a Friday night to the one you wear on a Monday morning. They paint your day, your week, and/or your years to come.
On how many of you does the tough love approach work? Though love for me works wonders. Mainly because it has a humongous chunk of logic infused within this approach. It gives no room for sulking and self-pity; two emotions that annoy me the most.